I will be having a pyjama party for my birthday tomorrow night. Here are the excuses people made for not attending, sorted by category:
o I’ll be in Ireland
o I’ll be in Holland
o We are off to Jolly old England on Thursday
o We’ve got some friends visiting from Germany with a small child
o Sorry, buddy, but I can’t go. I have to take my dog out to my parents that weekend bc they are taking care of him while we are in Guatemala
o I’d normally be all over this kind of thing, [but] I’m going to have to decline
o Really can’t swing it, there is too much going on for us right now.
o I won’t be able to make it
o I cannot attend your pj party
o [no response]
o Unfortunately your birthday falls on another important day for us: our six month anniversary
o I am signed up for a two-day intensive seminar at UBC that weekend, so I won’t be able to make it
o I’ve been hooked into working at a charity event
o I have to work on Saturday
o I have a bad cold, and also would not want to pass it along
From this, I can determine that
a) some of my friends are international travellers
b) some of my friends are either too lazy to make up a genuine excuse, or unwilling to tell me why they can’t attend
c) some of my friends book up well in advance and I should be more organized
Several people counter-offered to meet up for dinner on another night, so my final conclusion is that sleepovers are not as popular as dinners.
Perhaps this changed after high school, which was the last time I tried a birthday sleepover. I will note this for next year’s birthday celebrations and adjust accordingly.
“The superior man contains the means in his own person. He bides his time and then acts. Why then should not everything go well? He acts and is free. Therefore all he has to do is to go forth, and he takes his quarry. This is how a man fares who acts after he has ready the means.”
“kindergarchy n. Rule or domination by children; the belief that children’s needs and preferences take precedence over those of their parents or other adults.”
“As in 2007, the average U.S. worker has 14 vacation days this year. Just across the Canadian border, our counterparts get an average of 17 vacation days annually. But if you want a real “vacation envy” complex, consider the vacation banks of European workers. France tops the list with an average of 37 days, followed by Italy (33 days), Spain (31), the Netherlands and Austria (28), Germany (27) and Great Britain (26). “
Who cares about the people who didn't come! The people who did, made it a great time. I'm glad I was there...
Posted by goddess_spiral at 7:52 pm on Oct. 26, 2005
let me trade my [no response] for a "i'm broke, i'm burnt out and i don't like the idea of sleeping with a bunch of strangers".
and i was totally being lazy about not replying. plus, i feel so bad that i'm always saying "no" to your invitations! you'd think it's personal, but it's really not!
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